Talking points: Vicki Belo-Hayden Kho Split Up

Honestly, hindi ako mahilig sa showbiz. Hindi rin ako nagkainteres sa kaso na ito just because I like the showbiz chika and chaka. But this case got my attention because of the nature of the relationship itself and the obviously huge difference between the partners involved.

We all know that this is a some sort of a may-december love affair. Vicky Belo is 52, while Hayden Kho is 28. Ok, nothing wrong with the age though. Everybody has the right to love and be loved, no matter what is your age.There is also a huge difference in the partners background: Vicky is a multi-millionare celebrity doctor while Hayden is the more simpler one, in fact, a struggling doctor, trying to also to establish a good name as a doctor. Again, there is also nothing wrong with the difference in the partner’s background. When it comes to love and relationships, I consider these factors to be the heaviest: sincerity, respect, trust and loyalty. Consider third party hunting and do stupid moves, you’ll get ditched by your partner.

Sad to say that Dra. Belo found out that Hayden has done some third party honcho-poncho. I can consider documenting your sex life (videos and pics) are something pretty stupid. Hey, your sex life is not meant to be documented! Its a private one remember? Anyways, whatever Hayden did over there, he will soon get into the repercussions of what he has done.

Men are always men. Honestly, I have a low trust rating when it comes to men. Well, I can be a friend but when it comes to giving out my trust, I am at my most stringiest. Minsan, napapasabi na lang ako (observing the behavior of other guys out there): Kaya pala dumadami na ang mga tibo ngayon kasi naman ang ibang mga lalake e masyadong mahihina para sa mga babae. (No offense for the gays and lesbians out there) I am not generalizing all the guys out there – I am merely pinpointing some of the obvious flaws that most men do. And yes, let’s face it – the gentlemen, faithful guys and the knights in shining armor are declining in population.

Have you watched the Fitrum short film / commercial on GMA 7? Yung matabang girl e hindi man lang inoofferan ng upuan ng guys dun sa bus samantalang yung sexy chick lang ang inoofferan. I always observed that kind of scenario sa bus – believe me – a clear evidence that most men nowadays are lacking or perhaps forgetting what it takes to be man. I always see na kadalasan ang magaganda at sexy ang naoofferan ng upuan. Samantalang ang mga panget, matatanda, at yung mga sporty girls or mga mukhang plain lang ang kadalasang naiiwang mag-standing ovation sa bus.

Is it all about sex and beauty na lang ba? I know men are visual creatures, they are hard wired to constantly think about sex and finding partners (because its their evolutionary responsibility to propagate) but what makes a man is not based on having a macho image, dating hot girls, getting rich nor being able to drink lots and lots of beer or alcohol (just like my freaking neighbors sheessh) as well as being dominating / domineering to women.

What makes a man is that he accepts responsibilities in his relationship and for his partner, he knows his limits, and he is sensitive enough for his relationship and his partner. Of course, that is coupled with the foundations of relationship that I have mentioned earlier. Men are not chauvinist pigs nor they are dogs who just like to think about sex and bitching around. A man may not have the samson-like physique but he is strong enough to face the ever-changing tides of his life and in his relationships.

I salute the guys out there who are trying to act like a man and in the best way they can be. They are the ones who assume responsibilities for their family, trying to earn a living and set an example as a man and father to their relatives, friends and family. You are indeed a man. Kahit pa hindi maganda ang katawan mo o sinasabi ng iba na panget ka, it does not matter at all. The beauty and the strength of a person comes from his character, not from his physique.

And to the guys out there who act like dogs who like bitching around and chauvinist pigs – stop doing it kasi in the end, hindi kayo pagkakatiwalaan ng mga babae at lalong di maapreciate ang pagkamacho nyo. Sad to say, you are not man enough for the ladies out there. Remember to put your brains on your head, not on your testicles. Okay?

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